Letting Go Sometimes holding on really does do more damage than letting go. To “let” can be defined in several ways including: “to allow something to happen or someone to do something by giving permission or by not doing anything to stop it from happening
Some people have been offended as I have told them this - well I used a different word than stupid but I don't sugarcoat that it was their bad decision that got them into trouble. I have made too many bad decisions to tiptoe around now.
No/low contact is the only way to go. Don't take their bait. Never argue with someone who believes their own lies. And remember: every abuser believes EVERYTHING that comes from their mouths is pure truth.