Working With Narrative in Emotion-Focused Therapy: Changing Stories, Healing Lives by Leslie S. Greenberg. $54.67. 170 pages. Author: Lynne E. Angus. Publisher: American Psychological Association; 1 edition (October 26, 2011)
Emotionally Focused Therapy...haven't watched this yet, just heard about it.
Sue Johnson, Emotionally Focused Therapy and author of "Hold Me Tight" talks about looking at the whole conversation. Can we learn to say "We are both stuck in this conversation of disconnection. We are both hurting." instead of "You are being difficult. You are being totally distant and don't care about me at all." Move to a "we" level and help the conversation.