How do I make it up to you? Even when trying to, some people just don't know how to forgive, and for them...it's their heart that is not understanding Christ's love. God doesn't expect perfect, only that we are humble enough to say "I'm sorry, I won't do it again, but also...to make it up to someone is to restore things." but when someone rejects the "Make it up" it's then their problem of hard heartedness, and they need forgiveness from God for that.