This was true for me up until about three years ago. I was at the point to where I was ok by myself. Then an old friend entered my life and it was a Rocky situation until in learned to let go of the fear of my past and learn to trust. Once I did that, I went after what I wanted and truly learned him too. So thankful that I did because I love falling asleep and waking up with him everyday! My old friend is now my new husband and we got the rest of our lives to live life to the fullest!