Many of our lives are shaped around dysfunctional family backgrounds,&we tend to try to disassociate from them,as we get older.It’s a good idea to grow up & leave the past behind.But if we don’t examine the pain of the past & make an attempt to heal it,we will drag it with us through life...& hungry ghosts of the past will plague us.-Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway(saul landell)