reward system based on 'real world' -- kids earn chips for good behaviors and chores, then turn them in for things they want. they also lose chips for behaviors that aren't acceptable. (this is the chart I created for my little nanny-kids):
SCHOOL HOLIDAY RULES You may have as much time on the Ipad/TV/computer as you like - so long as allof these jobs have been done before you turn on a screen. Have you: Made your bed Had breakfast Dress.
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