The system that really works. I did away with all other chore systems. This is the one that really works: mom bucks.
reward system based on 'real world' -- kids earn chips for good behaviors and chores, then turn them in for things they want. they also lose chips for behaviors that aren't acceptable. (this is the chart I created for my little nanny-kids)
Rewards for Good Behavior (Free Printable
Rewards for Good Behavior (Free Printable) #FamilyFun
A free download that asks your child a series of questions about what they like/do/think right now. To be repeated every year as they grow. A lovely idea. About-me-this-year chart.
My version of the points system. You can also always leave the required points for ungrounding blank so that it can be tailored to fit the offense, and of course customize the chores to fit your home.
The Ultimate Household Chore List
household chore cleaning list
How to use a pom-pom reward system that will actually work
Point system for our 8-year old using play money. It has helped his behavior SO much!
I think I may have found the best system that will work for us!! yay!! updated if/then expectations chart by daisyeyes, via Flickr