reward system based on 'real world' -- kids earn chips for good behaviors and chores, then turn them in for things they want. they also lose chips for behaviors that aren't acceptable. (this is the chart I created for my little nanny-kids):
Consequence chart, hopefully this will eliminate blurting out consequences in the heat of the moment.and teach them to make better choices. I definitely think some of these would need to be changed to be more logical consequences.