Ephesians429 challenge. The goal is less yelling and more kind words We need to be reminded to speak kindly show love build each other up on a daily basis. Each member is getting 30 quarters to start the week with. Every time they yell, say something unkind or hurtful, 1 quarter is put in the big jar. At the end of the week whoever has the most quarters remaining in their jar gets to keep the jackpot.